why men lose interest in relationships!

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It’s hard to imagine a man losing interest in a beautiful woman, right? Aren’t men hardwired to impress a woman they’re attracted to? Maybe but only to a point. Sometimes they “play along” until the date is over and then they avoid her calls like the plague. 

Sometimes they take her to bed and then never call her again. Sometimes a man, especially one with plenty of other options and a lot of self-confidence, will just end a conversation immediately if he feels offended by a woman’s statement. The question is, what are the eight biggest offenders that make men lose interest..

Guys hate drama. Choose your battles; making big deals out of nothing everyday will eventually drive him away.

Being the one in full charge, can turn any man off for so many reasons. He feels like you’re taking his role, which makes him feel useless or less of a man. Although, men love confident women, try not to be bossy. Be smart; make him lead and feel triumphant.

Consenting to anything and everything he says while never sharing your opinion and true feelings, is not a good way to keep him interested either. He doesn’t want to hear words like: “anything” or “as you like” every time he asks for your opinion. Men like intelligent women who are not afraid to speak their mind.

“Where have you been?” “You’re not the same anymore” “Why are you ignoring me!” “Do you like someone else?” And leaving him 50 missed calls when he’s out with the boys are the number one reason why he started to feel like a prisoner, and thus, lose interest.

A man will lose interest in you the moment you stop paying attention to your looks and style. Maybe you’ve been caught up too much in work or with the kids, forgetting to take care of your own self. Remember, he might start looking elsewhere.

Most men are adventurous, and love to take risks; it’s in their genes. So, if you’re over protective and never seem interested in any of his crazy ideas, acting as the overly protective old fashioned grandma, he might think you’re BORING!

Every man needs special treatment. Everyone needs attention in his own unique way. So, if you’re not giving him the attention he’s looking for, or don’t pamper him from time to time occasionally telling him how special he is, he might indeed lose interest. Yes, like a baby, a man needs attention and affection.

If you ask him to do everything for you and can’t depend on yourself in any aspect of life, he will probably run away sooner or later. A man doesn’t want a woman who soars his burden; he wants someone to help him out instead.

If you’re the tomboy type who’s always acting as one of the boys, he will most probably lose interest in you after a while.

 A man is a man after all; he will look for tenderness and decency from time to time. Make sure that he finds the “lady” in you when he looks for her.

Some men realize that they’re not ready for commitment and responsibility when the relationship gets serious. some start to back down as they realize that they’re not ready for such a huge responsibility yet.

Some men are womanizers by nature; one woman will never be enough for them. The idea of having a life time partner with whom they will spend the rest of their lives with, can sound deadly to them. As cruel as it seems, but, he might have lost interest because your time is up with him.